PUAvictim

Posted by PUAvictim on March 14, 2009

It’s not secret that I love the PUA community for the tools it gives  guys. Like any tool, you can use it for good or abuse it all together. If you are going to use these tools to better yourself then you have me as a fan, I will totally applaud you for it.

So you have the tools and you can get the girl, now what? If you are young and are only looking to get laid, then this post isn’t for you. This post is targeted to the mature PUA that has found the girl and wants to keep her.

Do you have the inner game to keep her?  Have you told her you are a PUA?

There are many relationship experts that I respect, one being Stephen Nash (Playboy from The Game) As you know he didn’t have problem getting the girls, now he has “the girl”.

Another relationship expert that I admire is Scot Mckay, he has many e-books on relationships and also does one on one coaching.

There are many tools out there to help you get a girlfriend, you have to decide if you are ready and take action.

Months into our relationship, my boyfriend confessed that he used to be a PUA. Used to, because he no longer needs to be a PUA,  now that I am in the picture.

Was he nervous telling me about the PUA community? Of course, but I am so glad he did. If you are unsure how your girlfriend will take the news, then you might decide to wait a bit. If you tell her and she is not open minded and is repulsed by it, I am so sorry….. MOVE ON!

You did not come this far, for some insecure girl to sabotage your success.

Will you hurt? Hell yeah! PUAs have hearts and they can also break. But you have the tools to mend those hearts.  Take time to deal with your pain, you might not feel like sarging right away, but after a while…..GET YOUR ASS UP and do something about it!

Will try to post more often, if you have any questions please feel free to comment.

**Just so you know I am an affiliate for these guys, I promote their products because I believe in them. I will never promote someone I don’t believe in!**

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Posted by PUAvictim on January 30, 2009

So I am out with my friends on a Thursday night (well deserved girls night out!) nothing but girls having fun. We go to this bar where we are meeting a few people for a birthday party. I’m having fun, but I notice that it’s a different kind of fun. I wasn’t having fun because I was checking out guys (my man was at home, I am allowed to look as long as I don’t touch), nor was it because I had already downed two Malibu pineapple drinks, I was having fun because I was enjoying the game.

The game that night was trying to see if I could spot any Pick Up Artists, or just a great or interesting pick up lines. Yup, the night began off to a great start!

“Ladies, I have a question, I have a friend who’s gay……..”

Let the games begin guys!
This was maybe 15 minutes after we got to the bar. I was with two of my friends and a couple of guys came over and asked “Ladies, I need your help. I have this friend who is gay and wants to give me a man purse for my birthday, how do I say no to a man purse without hurting his feelings?”

My first thought…this guy is claiming he is not gay while holding on to this other guy, whom I assumed was suppose to be the wing man. This wing man wasn’t really helping he kept asking about my ear rings. (If not gay, maybe metro sexual?

Who knows, but they were given points for originality even though it hurt them at the end. These poor guys were trying to hard! They were not playing it cool. The line sounded to rehearsed and the wing man was very nervous. The guys were cute but had no confidence what’s so ever. Their main objective was to make it known that they were not gay. It of course backfired because that was the first thing that we thought since that’s all they talked about. The cute guys left after I told them, that if they were gay, they would make a cute couple.

If these guys had the confidence, they would have laughed at my remark and followed it up with some smart remarks. We got nothing from them. Guys! Don’t ever walk away from a situation like that! That cute guy could have easily said “Yeah, it’s hard being me when not only girls are after me, but their boyfriends try to hook up with me too!” That would have been a great come back for them, and I know my friends and I would have enjoyed talking to them more.

If they were seen as just having fun, comfortable with their environment, or even just doing a low key magic trick , they would have had a lot of girls attention. Like I said these guys were cute but they lacked confidence.

Imagine what fun it would have been, for my friends and I to see them at the bar performing some magic. The only way it would have worked of course is if they played it cool and not do the magic as a routine. Not having confidence shows and you can have the best pick up line or the best magic trick, but at the end, it’s your personality that has to shine through.

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Posted by PUAvictim on January 7, 2009

I have to admit that I didn’t know much about the pick up artist community until recently. My boyfriend brought it to my attention not too long ago, when he confessed that he was a pick up artist.

Thinking he was just joking, I just listened and didn’t say anything. Kept staring at him, with must have looked like a stupid smile in my face.

While he kept explaining,with great detail I might add, how he became a pick up artist,there were a lot of gray areas I had to go over. I am the most analytical person ever, so I had to dissect everything,  many thoughts went through my head.

WHAT THE HELL!

Did he mean everything he said in the past?

Was he just trying to get me to sleep with him?

Was our relationship a lie?

He told me about what he studied and how he subscribed to Brad Jackson’s PUMAskills course. When he finished talking I realized…..

I AM IN LOVE WITH A PUMA!

The magic tricks he performed really grabbed my attention. Months into our relationship he performed awesome card tricks. (My man is great with his hands!)

I am so glad that my man took the steps to better himself. It takes a true man to want to better himself and an even greater man to actually admit he was a pick up artist.

Not only am I okay with him being a PUMA, but I am now on a mission to study everything about pick up artists. I visit blogs, I watch videos on PUAs (very fond of Brad Jackson’svideos, he is hot! My man knows I think he is a hottie, and is okay with it. That’s how sure he is of himself now)  I am reading The Game by Neil Strauss, and I have started this blog.

My PUMA introduced me to the Pick Up Community and I find it very interesting. I’m hooked!

I welcome any questions you might have for me, and I will keep you posted on the pick up artist community.

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